- We have had a couple of grass fires in outlying areas that have taken days to get under control. Although there have been promises of a reprieve from the 34C temperatures we have had for weeks now, the occasional grey clouds never amount to anything. Everything is crispy. LA's mother, who has lived on the property since 1961, says she has never experienced weather like we have had recently.
- The beginning of June, I strained my back quite badly....badly enough that there were times I had to sleep in a chair because I couldn't get in or out of bed. It was worth it, though. :-) It was caused by a great riding lesson that included poles. I was planning on taking the summer off from lessons (too hot!!), so I just stopped a little sooner. About 3 weeks ago, I started riding again. I needed assistance getting up, and I only lasted short periods of time, but it felt good to get back in the saddle. I managed to get Gem up to a lope a couple of times and I was very pleased with myself. Funny how quickly your confidence and endurance diminishes when you haven't ridden in a few weeks.....
- Just over a week ago, LA convinced me to have Gem put out at night and brought into the cool barn during the day. DH is still out there with him. Now for those of you who have been reading this blog for a while, you might remember that Gem is a bit of an escape artist. He is not afraid of the electric fence and has proven that a few times now. Initially, I wasn't fussy on it, but with the heat we have been experiencing I decided to give it a go. It seems to be working out OK. The downside is that when I see him to ride, he is full of beans and is anxious to get out of the stall. Not a great combination when when you are trying to ease back into riding. :-)
- I bought my Australian stock saddle. I put it together last week and tried it out on Friday. Everything is quite stiff yet, so I won't be taking it out on the trails until it's broken in. I am having difficulty in getting the girth as tight as it should be. It is sooo much lighter than my Western! I love the seat of it - the cantle is quite high and helps support your back and it's very comfortable. The knee pads keep you in position. It will take some time to get used to the leathers and I am definitely going to swap out the stirrups - I find them a bit small.
- DH's Mom just got back from a dude ranch adventure. She went on her own. She has ridden most of her life and this type of holiday has always been a dream of hers. She was in the interior of British Columbia and said it was the best vacation she had ever been on. She was there a week, along with 40 other people. Every day there were trail challenges - riding up mountains, crossing rivers, stony paths, deep brush. There was lots of galloping and she jumped a log....at a gallop....this was her first time jumping! The place was a first class resort and very well managed. The horses were terrific and the food amazing. She made lots of friends. She said that she learned soooo much from the rancher and the professionals that took them on the day excursions. Some of her observations hit really close to home for me.....but I will share them in another post.
- Jean made the decision last week (I admit that I did push it a bit) to get a professional trainer involved with Stu. It's a hard pill to swallow, but she has come to the realization that perhaps she needs help. I am very pleased that she has made this decision. She met with a trainer that LA recommended and they had their first session last Friday.
- A few weeks ago, I sent an email to a local Hyundai dealership enquiring about the delivery wait for a red Veloster. Dealers around here are only getting a few of these cars and they are sold practically before they arrive. In my email, I said that I was interested in a base model, I wanted an automatic and I wanted it in red. No one replied. :-( On Saturday, My Husband and I were out shopping and he started talking about my need of a new car and he suggested we swing by the Hyundai dealer to look at the Elantra as an alternative. As we were sitting in a floor model, I mentioned to the sales rep that what I was really interested in was the Veloster. He said that he had one on the lot that was sold, but if I wanted to sit in it I could....yes, please! He returned with the keys and as we were walking to the car, he said he was mistaken....this car was not sold; it was their 2013 model that had just arrived. My heart skipped a beat. As we walked closer, I saw that it was red. My heart fluttered. When I got in, I noticed it was an automatic.... I asked if this was the base model - yes it was. My heart jumped. So, I bought my car on the weekend! No waiting, no fuss. In fact, the car was so new to the lot that the price had to be verified. How weird that My Husband would suggest going to the dealership on Saturday and that the car had just been delivered and was exactly what I was looking for. It was meant to be!!
Have a great week!!
Geez, the temps are up to 35C here, 40C with the humidex! Yikes! Makes for really big hair. :-)
Jean has been doing amazing work with Stu. When she lunges him, he now responds immediately to all of her verbal commands: easy, whoa, walk, trot. She has been exposing him to different things to desensitize him. Stu now wears a western saddle on his back while being lunged. Jean has done all of this on her own and her confidence has grown. I know Jean pretty well, and I can tell she was getting bored with her routine with Stu. So it wasn't a surprise when Jean asked LA if she could go to the next step. With LA's help, she actually sat on Stu a couple of weeks ago, with LA holding Stu's headstall. Very exciting. He was skittish, understandably. Jean was nervous, understandably. Unfortunately, after Jean sat on Stu, he got the step ladder caught on his back foot , causing him to spook a bit. LA continued to hang on and calm him, Jean gratefully got down and untangled him. Now, apparently, white step stools are killer monsters to Stu.
The plan was to have someone sit on Stu every day, eventually working up to a walk. The challenge was that Jean couldn't be out at the barn every day and LA could not risk injuring herself on a green horse because it would impact her training business. The 2nd time Jean was scheduled to sit on him, she started working herself up to a tizzy with her nervousness. Fortunately, she came clean and one of the other adult boarders, who has worked with green horses before, volunteered to "sit" on Stu with LA holding Stu's headstall. Even though he routinely swung his hind end out, Stu did pretty well with the boarder on his back and LA actually led him around in a couple of small circle. This boarder volunteered to sit on Stu when Jean was not there, but scheduling became an issue. So, on Sunday, as I was untacking Gem, I overheard Jean explaining the situation to another boarder and how she was frustrated that it appeared that Stu was ready but the stars were not aligned. At that point, I volunteered to be Jean's ground person if she wanted to try sitting on him.
Jean lunged Stu in the arena while I finished up with Gem. I got my Confidence Vest out of the car and handed it to Jean as I entered the arena. At first she said she didn't need it, but I asked her to wear it for me and she did. We both had helmets on. She handed Stu's reins to me and I walked him around the arena a couple of times, talking to him, getting him used to me and my voice. Jean put the big black 3-step mounting block in the middle of the arena. Initially, all Jean did was pull down on the stirrup, getting him re-acquainted with the feeling. He kept swinging his hind end away from Jean. She would reposition the mounting block and we would go through the same routine. Eventually, we moved him to the 1/2 wall next the to gate; Jean didn't want him to feel claustrophobic, so she thought that standing parallel to the gate where he could see outside would be a good thing. Positioning him there worked wonderfully. He did not swing out his hind end and over a 10(?) minute period, she worked up from pulling down on the stirrup, to stepping up and leaning over him and dismounting. All the while, I was stroking Stu's neck and telling him what a good boy he was. His anxiety started to melt away, his head lowered, he sucked on the bit and his eyes were relaxed. Jean was nervous because she knew the time had come. I told her that if she didn't feel up to it to walk away now - in my mind it was already a very successful session. She decided to give it a go.
She slowly swung her leg over him and gently sat down. Stu, perked up and as usual, took a big step and started to swing his hind end out. What happened next caught both of us off guard. Stu became a whirling dervish, with me hanging on to his face for part of it. 
Unfortunately for Jean, the momentum of Stu doing a really fast small circle whipped her out of the saddle. She flew through the air coming down hard on her hip, then chest, finishing with a face plant in the new fluffy sand. I was glad that she was wearing my vest. :-) Stu immediately stopped and stood about 15 feet away, looking at us. I swear he was scared but concerned about what had just happened. While Jean was trying to catch her breath, I went to Stu, spoke quietly to him and then looped the reins over the horn of the saddle, to keep them from sliding down his neck and over his head.
LA's husband came in to the arena and while I moved the mounting block over the Jean so she could sit, he went over to Stu. After a few minutes, LA's husband got on Stu (from the ground, for cripes sakes!) and sat on him for a few minutes while LA and I ascertained that Jean could walk, etc.
I am certainly no expert, but here's my postmortem:
- Jean was nervous and Stu picked up on that.
- Perhaps 10(?) minutes was too long to be working up to Jean getting on him.
- Jean and I were lulled into a false sense of security when Stu became relaxed.
- I did a good job of calming Stu, but perhaps it was too good. If he was half asleep when Jean sat on him, he may have been startled.
- Jean was a bit too slow in getting into the saddle; it was not fluid, hence her foot was not secure in the other stirrup and she did not have a secure grasp on the reins.
- When Stu took that initial step when Jean sat in the saddle, swinging his hind end away from me, I believe he hit the bottom of the gate with one of his hind feet, causing him to jump forward (reminiscent of the killer monster stool).
- It happened so quickly, that neither of us had the sense to actually use any verbal commands, like "easy" or "whoa!"
I know what it's like to fall from a large horse. I fell from Gem while galloping (the galloping was not by choice!!) and once when he bucked at a horse that was too far up his butt on the trails, catapulting me out of the saddle to fall like a rag doll in the hard snow. It's scary and it hurts. A lot. I was able to get right back on Gem both times, which was good for my confidence. Jean was focused on herself after the fall and didn't have any contact with Stu, not even a reassuring pat while we were still in the arena. :-( Someone else took him to the barn, untacked him and put him out. After I agreed to pick her up, she sent me a note saying she had decided not to come out to the barn on Tuesday because she was stiff and didn't think that it would be good for her to be traipsing around the fields looking for Stu.....
I know her confidence has suffered with this fall and it has been a humbling from a "knowing her horse" and "horse trainer" perspective. I just hope it doesn't take long for her to get over it and that I will see her out at the barn this weekend, working with her beautiful horse.
Have a good weekend and stay cool!
